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		| Originally posted by anti fishstick no i don't manipulate like that because i don't appreciate when guys manipulate me either.
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 Ditto!  I had way too much of him withholding in my first marriage and will not go back to a guy manipulating me with sex.
However, if I'm really angry (which usually means hurt) I'm not in a mood for sex -- that is different.  Then, it is important to settle the issue (not win!) before being intimate.  Make-up sex can be wonderful!