Just remember: recycling is good for the environment....at least, it's good for my environment! I've had a few "insignifigant others" who thought that way, and they found themselves out of my life so fast it made their heads spin.
Don't get me wrong: there are times when anger will play a part in a diminished sexual desire. I accept that wholeheartedly. If I'm in a relationship with someone, it's give-and-take on many levels; compromise is key. However, there is a mighty difference between a temporary dimishing of one's desires and using lack of sex as punishment. When that line is crossed, I find myself having a sit-down discussion with the girl. If it cannot be resolved, her ass is gone; if compromise cannot be reached, if no latitude is to be had from her, then I really cannot see myself putting any more time or effort into an obviously "losing" proposition.
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