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AngelHands, Lebell has a number of female friends and we live in two different locations (very long distance relationship.) Sometimes it is easy for me to get jealous. (Distance, mixed with the fact that my ex had affairs.) What helps me feel better is our open communication. He always tells me when he went out with a female friend and what they did. I trust him and appreciate that he doesn't hide the truth from me. If he did, I would feel like he was sneaking. This way, I may get a jealous pang; but then I'm able to remind myself that he is friends with them and in love with me and that I'm his best friend.
So, my suggestion with you is to be completely honest and upfront as well as reassuring when those jealous pangs hit your bf. Remind him that he is the one you choose to love! Whatever you do, don't give up your friendships for him -- you will resent him in the long run if you do.
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