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You've been friended, man. I hate to tell you. Every sign she's given has been largely platonic. If she's casual when sober, then there is no spark. I have been there, back in high school, pining away for this one girl. She won't magically realize anything about you or her boyfriend.
There are so many fish in the sea, though, so many intelligent, lovely ladies right under your nose, I'll bet. She'll probably start acting wierd when you get interested in a girl, but be strong against her reaction. Don't let her tug at you.
Let her know that you're no less her friend when you're with another girl than you are when you're with her. If she still tugs, she's just being selfish.
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"The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them." -- Michael Caine
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