It all depends on what you are going for. I rarely have found a line to work. A bit cocky but not arrogant is a good way to be in an initial approach to a stranger. It has more of a chance of success. However some of the women you might really want to meet don't go for that approach at all. My wife (who I love dearly) is a hi, my name is ...... sort of person. If you used a line on her, you wouldn't get very far. I had one woman on a board really start flirting with me just because I was talking intellectually with someone else. She was really pushing hard on me till she found out I was married (which I didn't hide). I guess I'm saying just be yourself and you will ultimately have more luck, because you won't be putting on some contrived act that is hard to maintain.
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