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Rubyee · 10-01-2003, 01:21 PM

Thanks for all of your advice. It has really helped. I think that for right now, I am just going to hold off on the whole idea. Our relationship is going greatly right now, and I don't want to bring an element into it that might screw it up.

However, that does not mean that I am not going to tell him how I feel for future consideration. There would be some terms set.

And as for him not being able to have other sexual relationships, I wouldn't expect him to do nothing if I were having other sexual relationships, either. But I don't want a RELATIONSHIP. I feel that I need to explore the possibility of having sex with a member of the same sex to find out what it is like. If he wanted to explore sex with another man, more power to him, and I would be happy to oblige.

However, if I said that I wanted to explore sex with the hot guy down the hall, then I could completely agree with what was said and it wouldn't be right.

So anyhow, thanks for the advice to all. Now, the hard part is going to be finding either someone or some couple to agree to this in the future that lives in IOWA.

10-01-2003, 01:21 PM	#11 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Thanks for all of your advice. It has really helped. I think that for right now, I am just going to hold off on the whole idea. Our relationship is going greatly right now, and I don't want to bring an element into it that might screw it up. However, that does not mean that I am not going to tell him how I feel for future consideration. There would be some terms set. And as for him not being able to have other sexual relationships, I wouldn't expect him to do nothing if I were having other sexual relationships, either. But I don't want a RELATIONSHIP. I feel that I need to explore the possibility of having sex with a member of the same sex to find out what it is like. If he wanted to explore sex with another man, more power to him, and I would be happy to oblige. However, if I said that I wanted to explore sex with the hot guy down the hall, then I could completely agree with what was said and it wouldn't be right. So anyhow, thanks for the advice to all. Now, the hard part is going to be finding either someone or some couple to agree to this in the future that lives in IOWA.