I have only been broken up with once, and it was a short one because she had cheated and I had cheated and it was just bound to come.
I have always left so abruptly that they usually wonder what happened. I give a little bit of explanation, but leave them still a little in the dark. If I were to do it the gentle way, I would have to sit around and explain exactly why I don't want to stay. I'd have to deal with attempts to sway me into staying a bit longer. I'd have to do a lot of things that I didn't want to do when I'm busy trying to cut things off.
The way I do it, they're generally over me in anywhere from two days to a month. My wife didn't get over it for two months, but we were married for two years.
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