the quick breakup is definitely easier
i've had both from the same girl in high school
didn't get over her the gentle way for months (we're better off just as friends, bs)
started dating her again when i came back on break from college(i had gone to school 4 hrs away), we had our best time then, she said she wanted to see other people cause i wasn't around enough , i, of course, figured she already was seeing other people, but i was still surprised when it happened, cut back on talking to her (benefit of being 4 hrs away) started doing my own thing, i got over her real quick after that (though didn't meet a new girl for 6 months, who would be my current gf of 4 yrs)
but became just good friends afterward, we have talked about what could've been though, if i didn't move away, etc
and i have fantasized about her cause we never did have sex, and we had talked about that since then and looking back both would've liked to had our first times together (though i'm happy with the way mine worked out anyway, then i wanted that, she would've liked me more than her guy she dated right after me)
and talked about doing it anyway just so we wouldn't wonder what each other are like
but that wouldn't actually ever happen, because of happy current relationships
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