In all honesty, for first impressions, it helps to be a little showboat-y. Don't be obnoxious, but say something they would perceive as forward. Follow up with casual conversation... whatever feels comfortable. You're absolutely right, though: getting their attention is far harder than keeping it.
And though I can't speak from personal experience, I agree with <b>Johnny Rotten</b>. Online dating attracts a certain type of girls that typically aren't really long-term material. At any rate, good luck in your quest for love.
Itchy93
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That's just my opinion; I could be wrong.
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