Personally I wouldn't put up with a selfish lover. A good relationship should be about give and take on both parts. As far as I'm concerned, sex should be just as much about pleasuring your partner as the pleasure you yourself receive. Having a lover who just cared about himself and his own pleasures wouldn't last with me - I would also take it as a good indication of his dealings with other people in general and a selfish person is not worth my time....either in bed or out of it.
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