Yes, you can
and yes, I have
Despite any attraction you might have, you can learn to be just friends
However, this requires you to ignore any "human" desires,
and understand that your admiration for each other goes beyond this.
Unfortunately, most people fail at this and give in to their selfish or "hormonal" sides.
You have to go beyond your desire, make the admiration more mental.
Enjoy their company just for "them", not their body.
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