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Skysooner -- good for you! He is right on, the key is "working" at it. For many woman, sex starts in the morning and last all day. In other words, the more kindness you show her throughout the day (kissing her passionately goodbye, calling to say you love her, leaving a note in her lunch, etc.) and the more helpfullness your provide (doing your part of the housework without being asked, cooking dinner -- remember to add the candles -- etc.) the more energy she will have for sex in the evening.
In other words, she use to like sex a lot more. My guess is it is because you use to pay a lot more attention to her. Pay attention!
Remember, you can't change other people, you can only change yourself. So, the question you should be asking is, "what can I do to make this better?"
As for trying new things, talk, Talk, TALK. Share your fantasies and encourage her when she shares hers. Really listen! After sharing for awhile, then suggest acting on one -- maybe she will slowly open up.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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