I think its a natural reaction to fall for a close friend. If you are single and love being around a particular girl (in a Platonic sense), how could you not want her? You enjoy a friend's company. You understand each other. You trust each other. Aren't these the most important parts of any potentially lasting relationship?
Sure, some circumstances can prevent this type of reaction. I think that unless you are already attached though, that possibility is the exception.
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