I say yes, others say no. My best friend is a guy. He is in a commited relationship, and so am I. If those hadn't been the terms when we met, perhaps events could have unfolded otherwise. We don't have any problems.
My friend Ellis, on the other hand, has never been able to have a plutonic relationship with a girl. If he's friends with a girl (myself included), he wants to fuck her, and hits on her incessantly. The only plutonic relationship he finds possible is with his stepsister, and he had sex with her at one time.
So really it just depends on the persons and situations. Such friendships are certainly possible, but very easy to screw up.
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