Yes. I have a close guy friend and for a while we were both struggling to be just friends. But then we gained control of ourselves and now he's my best friend at college. Just to let you know: I had to control myself cause I was with Spinach_Indeed and I love him and didn't want to lose him.
But then again, it's just as hard for me to stay just friends with girls that I'm close to. In a way it's easier cause none of them swing that way so i don't really have the option, but I still have the same desires as I would with a close guy friend. It all just comes down to control. Once I tell myself that it will never happen then it slips from my mind and it's not hard to be just friends. So i guess, yes it's possible but after a bit of struggling.
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