I have to disagree with hunnychile. Although visual sometimes does it for me, I much prefer the written word or auditory stimulation. A good short story, novel, or just talking sexy is what gets me hot.
Having raised 3 boys and been around many male friends, etc. I do believe that men are much more visual. And personally, I find nothing wrong with it -- it just is.
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