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i've had the reverse happen to me too. My long distance love/live in and I didn't work out, she slept with a coworker and that lead to our eventual demise.
We'd not spoken in about 11 years and after 9/11 I got an email saying,"I know you are in NYC I hope that you are okay." I was very shaken by the email and whether or not to reply. It took me over 1 week to respond and we exchanged emails for a bit.
That was good. It accomplished 2 things, first we caught up, the dude she left me for is her husband and father of her 3 kids. She also apologized to me about how she ended our relationship. It was like a burden was lifted off my shoulders. Really it evaporated the moment I read those words,"I'm sorry I was a bitch."
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