I havent read to much of the above posts, but this is my take on the situation. Be very aware of what you say and how you say it. You being a extremely intricate part of her life with have a profound effect on her now and for the years to come. Hinting she is fat and becoming less attractive to you could send her self esteem down the drain in a second. When you say something that herts her it she isnt going to just forget it, it will take along time and alot of work for you to regain her trust. And for her once again to know you think she is beautiful.
My suggestion is, start becoming more active yourself. Show her how much you enjoy it.
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