Well from a girls view,, She may be bored yes, but there may be other problems. Lots of times when we are unhappy we eat, hense the label of 'comfort food'. I dont know how your relationship is but, you might want to look at that. You said "Now that she is 21" which leads me to think you and her married young. I dont know how it is in Northern Virginia, but she may be feeling she is missing something in life. If her friends are still single and she is home it could lead her to being unhappy.
Most important of all you have to talk about it. I love the idea "MAKE her get a job." Better idea is a tact of focussing on a home or a larger home or newer. the hawaii trip all think to get her to focus on something other than her unhappiness.
I know it all gets to her unhappiness. I know Im only 90# but, every friend i have that is gaining weight is unhappy about something.
If you want to talk more message me
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