SiN

hmm..we hold each other however/whichever way works.

some positions of standing/sitting are a bit awkward, because i'm 5'0" and he's like 6'+..

but laying down, our most oft snuggling position is him on my side facing the outside of the bed, and me doing the 'hugging' his back thingy Thrae described...usually with my bottom arm under my head/pillow, and the other one wrapped around him somehow or just resting on his side/hip.
(or sometimes carefully cupping his 'package'. i love doing that!)
that's the standard 'until-he-falls-asleep' position...

sometimes we face each other too, i love that, holding each other.

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