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Your feelings seem perfectly normal, Bad_In_Public. I agree that seeing a counselor will help a lot. If you decide to try to stay with her, seeing the right counselor is the way to go.
Is there something she needs to forgive you for?
What is her primary love language? What is yours?
As listed by counselor Gary Chapman, the 5 languages that communicate love are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.
Focus on the intimacy and sex will come naturally. Compliment her and make her feel good about herself, even if you have to really work hard to think of things to say. Be honest, and be patient. Pursue her. It will be worth it.
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