I egree with all the foregoing,
One thing thats troubling me a little, its the grog thing, do you both drink a lot? It tends to depress and can make bad situations even worse. I personaly have found that when times are really bad, I drink more and it just gets worse.
Oh, and by the way, grog kills sex drives, if you get too drunk all the time.
If your wife is drinking heavily, alone at night, she is probably dealing with some real problems. Have you considered professional help?
I am not suggesting going on the wagon but some control is probably a good thing right now.
Hope its gets better and that it all works out
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