Give her the time and space she needs. Be there for her partially by respecting her boundaries. When the time is right and she is healed, this could be great for both of you! As a result of your patience, she will see that you are a true friend as well as her lover. And you will have learned to truly listen to and respect her. Good luck!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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