As a person who's worked in hospitals for years on swing or night shifts and who's recently switched to days.I can tell you that it isn't easy.My sleep cycle still isn't adjusted and while day shift passes quickly I find I really miss the no bullshit,easy,friendly company of the evening shift crew.Yet,because I'm in a relationship with a dude who's a day shifter I'm willing to at least try it for a year.I do enjoy having more time together and really like preparing dinner and eating with him like normal people.
As far as menopause goes,I'm close to your wife in age and haven't started yet,I find zero problem with my sex drive.Perhaps you might want to try an approach that's a tad more romantic than "wanna fool around?"
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