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Yeah that was pretty much my life for almost two and a half years. I supported her and treated her like a princess and bought her stuff and did everything she wanted. For a time, she didn't work at all, then she worked extremely part time for the rest of our relationship. She would always say "buy me these shoes!" or "buy me this shirt!" and I would because I was a sucka, but when I would come home with a new CD, or, heaven forbid, new musical equipment (I work in a music store - it's a disease) I would get a lecture on how irresponsible with my money I was, yadayada...but I took it because I loved her.
Then she started cheating on me with my singer and I found out about it. On an instant message she had stupidly saved on our computer. Buh-bye.
Anyway, your friend should FFIO and tell her to either get meaningful career with a future, go back to school, or to peace out. Letting someone you love go like that sucks, but it's your life. Don't sacrifice your own happiness for someone elses selfishness. It makes you miserable.
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