Now before I start this little rant let me put my cards on the table.
Lust is great. Nothing like some good old fashioned no holds barred grinding. You know that night out that ends up back in the lounge room then the kitchen then the bedroom followed by the quickie the next morning standing at the front door saying goodbye
For me though there is something missing when the feeling isn't there. I don't mean a declaration of undying love for all eternity, I am just talking about caring for the person you are with, spending a little time getting to know then and what they want (be it 10 minutes or a lifetime). The wish to make THEM happy. To respond to thier needs and wants is a real turn on.
I guess for me its the pleasure you can give to someone lese that makes it all that much better for me.
OK so there we have it. What I want to know is how you guys and galls feel about it. Are you a lover of lust or do you lust after love? Lust or Love? What gets your juices flowing?