The real question is: How do you get him interested in anything outside of vanilla at all?
I love Mr. Cedar dearly, but fear that we are completely sexually incompatible. He won't tie me unless I ask him repeatedly, and he's claustrophobic and can't bear being tied down, so domming in that regard is out of the question for me. I know I'm probably hijacking this discussion and will happily start a new thread if the mods want me to, but I've got to do something.
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