That was me in a nut shell, after a year or two, I saw my Friends moving on and doing things I could only dream of at the time, I realized it was now time to maybe do something productive with my life. Let her know that education and increasing her knowledge is one of the few things that can never be taken from her.
Encourage her to use your talents. Say if shes an artist, go to an exhibition, have her meet people that are in that field.
Find out what motivates her and give her a kick in that direction.
It helped me.
I had friends like you, and with there encouragement and wanting me to be better, I did..
Good luck
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LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
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