Friends -- Lebell and I have been playing around with dom/sub fantasies and are seriously working toward making them a reality.  I have read through several threads about these types of relationships.  In them, many of you comment on "teaching" him.  
As a naturally very strong woman, the idea of submitting is going to be new to me -- and a role I definitely want to take.  
(Just an fyi, as a teacher and mother this relationship will strictly be in our sex life and possibly on trips.  We are not planning a 24/7 D/s relationship.  Also, we already have a safe word

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My questions are:  
1. How do you submit?
2. What and how do you teach him?
3. Do you have any fun ideas you are willing to share with me?