I'm your age and I'm having the exact same problem :/
I think the problem is tension. You're just not relaxed enough somehow - and I've found a great way to get rid of tension is by trying out new and silly things in bed. Don't take things too seriously and keep experimenting with different positions and ways to stimulate both you and your gf... It (and you) will come eventually. I hope.
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