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BE WEARY, MY FRIEND, BE WEARY!!
Here's why I say this- when a girl who you've hung out with several times asks for a "formal date", she's testing your bounds. Apparently what you've shown her so far is that you're fun, interesting, etc. but you're not serious enough. She's of the impression that you think life is all fun and games, and that scares a lot of girls- because that attitude doesn't make you "husband" or "daddy" material, you get my drift? She's making sure that you can apply a level head when the time is right, be Serious Sam when you need to be, and that you have the ability to calm yourself in general. If she's been hanging out and asks for this, it might be because she fears you have no commitment potential and wants to see how solid a guy you are. Good luck.
Oh, and for date ideas- in your case, I would take her somewhere nice, but where you can still be YOURSELF- so not too nice... i'm not talking a kids' restaraunt or anything, but somewhere you can showcase the real you and make her feel like she's being taken out properly. Important- don't try and act differently, be true to yourself- don't be a calm version of yourself just to make her happy, or you'll start getting trapped into acting that way all the time. (no, i'm not talking from angst-riddled experience of anything. lol)
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