I've almosted embarked on the quest a few times myself.
I'm adopted and have always know. My parents told me the "story" about my birth mother and her drug habits and why she gave me up. I even recieved a letter from her when I was but a wee child (my parents kept it from me until I turned 18). So I know her name, and a couple cities shes lived in... and dreadfully my name prior to adoption (thanks mom and dad for changing it... THANKS!!!!!).
My sister who is also adopted sought out her history for medical purposes, had the option to meet and greet and turned it down.
So I've half heartidly searched a few times, like I said I know her name and the last city she lived in so sometimes I just call information or google her. I always get matches but never follow up.
But like you, I have 3 kids now and they all look like me, so who do I look like?
If anything, I'd say go for it. But if you want to respect her wishes, don't let her know who you are, become a traveling salemen for a day, and just say hello and don't let in on your secret identity.
Anyboy here in Oklahoma City OK? I got a job for you... find my mummsie
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