I suggest you dont bother your birth mother. But, that's coming from somebody who has never been married and will probably be never in your situation.
If she doesnt want any contact with you, I think you should respect her wishes.
As for the medical information, I think that it is a valid enough reason to contact your mother. I say that u let somebody do it for you.
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