I've always liked to think of this type of situation as a jigsaw puzzle.
I'm sure you remember those- sometimes you'd get the racecar or cartoon character, with the picture on the box, and those were easy because you knew what you were expecting from the beginning, and when pieces were missing ("will cuddling cure it", "will sex make me feel closer") you could just look at the holes and gauge what you could do to solve the puzzle.
In your case, you have the hard puzzle. It's that picture of something you didn't know existed let alone know what it looks like, and someone threw away the box with the picture on it. So right now, you're looking at some holes in a picture you can't make out for shit, so how can you expect to know what will go in those holes to complete the puzzle?
Well, when you find the right person for you, those last pieces will fall into place, and the finished puzzle will be the most beautiful thing you've ever seen in your whole life. This is what you're looking for.
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