Some girls like circles, some like straight up and down, some like fingers inside during, etc. Like people said, you have to ask her and then work at it. Don't just assume she is moaning becuase she likes it. Some women aren't very good communicators and don't want to make you feel bad about it. Also realize that her sensitivity down there is going to wildly vary depending upon how turned on she is. My wife will now tell me how hard, how soft, how to move my hand or tongue. If she is having a hard time getting focused, we go back to foreplay and then back to it. I can bring her to orgasm every single time now, but the technique is slightly different each time depending upon her mood. She is confident now that I'm not going to get ticked off because she tells me to do something a certain way and this has helped her relax.
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