Mountaineerben

i have a problem evidently givin a girl oral sex ... i am not doin something right ... i have only did this twice ... and i am do not think either one of them got off ... please help me i wanna be better at doin this ... thanks

Shifter59

follow the lips north until you find a little bump (the clitoris) when you find that, stimulate the bejesus out of it with your tongue, if they dont squirm something is wrong with them

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Averett

Every girl is different. Talk to her, ask her what she likes...

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Silvy

But be careful on the clitoris as some girls are EXTREMELY sensitive there.

start slowly (get her excited first) and push on from there.

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Mountaineerben

thanks i shall use this information

JStrider

also.. tell them to tell ya when its good... cuz sometimes its hard for us to know for sure...

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im just a girl

use your tongue... a LOT... and when they start bucking their hips, you know it feels good. also...switch between fingering and licking. it feels unbelievable. and dont forget to ask her what feels good as youre doing it, and get her to tell you what feels great

Hard8s

When she's breathing really heavy, moaning, or screaming "Yes, Yes" then you know you're doing it right!

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Neco

As a previous poster has said, everyone is diffrent... fingers can ruin/spoil it for some people, so ask... and you will eventuelly learn, also, don't go crazy on the tounge action, "worse" to do to hard then to soft...

Johnny Rotten

Draw the alphabet on her labia.

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hunnychile

Whoah, Johny Rotten is right...go slow then faster with those flipping alpgabet letters and insert the tongue and then just flick her clit. Over and over in deep then flick the clit. Easy, no? Oui!!! The best way is to vary the tempo and tongue pressure. And let her know she tastes like sweet peaches by letting out sounds of pleasure like ummm, yes, and "you taste good babe... " it will work and she'll get comfy and loser. Perhaps on to the multiple "O's" which are divine!!! I always come, be it tongue or cock. Don't ask questions - that's too cerebral and she'll have to think. Tuff for babes in heat. Just go for it.

Good luck handsome....lick away all fears. If she needs extra help shove a wet finger up her ass cuz that's just wild and adds the whole other dimesion to pleasure. My man does that and I squirt all over his face. Every time. he loves that jiz. Have Fun!!

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Evil Milkman

Cut your fingernails very short and make sure they are smooth to the touch. You can use your fingers to tickle her clitoris once in a while, or you use them to fill her (do this gently).

Also, if you're going to do be doing the oral sex with her laying on her back, you can reach up some times and lightly feel all over her body. Massage her breasts, feel her stomach, hold her hands. Change it up.

Also, I agree with the other posters. Let her know you enjoy it, take it slow, and ask her once in a while if you're doing it right. Just enjoy it.

Mountaineerben

i should be ready now lol ... i just needed some direction ... thanks to everyone ... now i will be able to please

oushi

Some people swear by this technique, but I for one would advise against doing this because all it'll do is make the deed seem more like a routine rather than letting you really get into what you're doing. I've always thought it to be more fun as the giver to just do what feels right instead of doing memorized moves. As long as she gets off, I suppose it doesn't really matter, though.

On another note, you can try gathering some saliva on your tongue, get her clit nice and wet, and then blow lightly onto that area.

Also, some girls can get self-conscious about you muff-diving... so make sure to tell her how beautiful her pussy is.

dylanmarsh

grow a goatee and follow everyone else's advice

Slims

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juanvaldes

That's all you need to know. That and when you can "pratice" more

meff

My wife really likes a few things:

Gently suck on the clit (preferably after you've warmed her up a bit) and flick it with your tongue whilst sucking..

Inserting your tongue into the vagina I hear is nicely pleasureable too, or use your fingers or a dildo at the same time..

Once you get really good at it you can make her cum in, like, a few seconds if you wanted to. I can do this and try not to get carried away at first, so I play with the outside, thighs, etc.. to get her begging for it.

Experiment
Tell her it's your first time, ask for help and I'm sure she would be glad to help out

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legolas

The alphabet thing doesn't work, at least not with women I've talked to. All girls are different and you're gonna have to ask her or just see what gets a response. I know from experience that a little clitoral stimulation and then moving into the hole gets a good response. And if you're really feeling crazy, stick it in the hole and suck the clitoris at the same time.

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skysooner

Some girls like circles, some like straight up and down, some like fingers inside during, etc. Like people said, you have to ask her and then work at it. Don't just assume she is moaning becuase she likes it. Some women aren't very good communicators and don't want to make you feel bad about it. Also realize that her sensitivity down there is going to wildly vary depending upon how turned on she is. My wife will now tell me how hard, how soft, how to move my hand or tongue. If she is having a hard time getting focused, we go back to foreplay and then back to it. I can bring her to orgasm every single time now, but the technique is slightly different each time depending upon her mood. She is confident now that I'm not going to get ticked off because she tells me to do something a certain way and this has helped her relax.

AlCap0wn

Ah, the Flavor Saver.

As mentioned before, ask your woman what she likes. She's the only one who truly knows.

meff

Try putting a night-mask over her eyes or something to the effect, tie a scarf around her eyes, etc.. really helps my wife said, it helps her mind not race during it.

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joe100

I have found that the longer I take and the slower I go the more I get in return.

Not the reason that I do it. But it is a bonus.

I love it when a woman tells me that she can't move her legs.

meff

Then you've definately done it right

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spudman61

...with your tongue, not a Sharpie!

seizei

once the pleasure starts to mount, suck her clit into your mouth gently, and continue to flick it with your tongue while keeping the light pressure on it.. usually sends em over the top.

If you can make your tongue into a 'U' shape, lick up her clit like that, stimulating both sides at once.

Biggest thing is, once the hips start to buck up and down, hold on for your life and for god's sake, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!!! It might be hard with all the movement, but try to keep it up.

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Shyla Loral

Lick the alphabet, it's a perfect thing for a first timer. Tell her you're going to do it first, and use capital letters;then she will say "Oh, do B, do B!!!" or whatever, and then you will know what she likes You can advance from there, but it's a great place to start.
Also, under the clit hood is good. Don't forget to play with boobies, too.

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maximus

damb spudman, i just went and bought a magnum sharpie, o well. ;-)

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