It sounds like part of the problem is definitely hormonal - you might want to look into non-hormonal bc options like a diaphragm or IUD.
But it sounds as though at least part of the problem is psychological - this has started to spiral to the point where you're both feeling bad about not being able to please the other person, so perhaps there's some anxiety involved, and who wants to have sex when you're anxious? Sounds like she might also have some body image issues - as an A-cup-cutie, I can sympathize: it took a lot of time for me to get comfortable with my size. For much less than you could spend on decent implants, she could go see a counselor or therapist or something and work on feeling good about herself instead of changing boob size. It's been my experience that, even if she did have bigger boobs, she'd probably still find something new to be self-conscious and unhappy about anyhow. Ain't no substitute with being happy with yourself exactly how you are.
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