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I've been on the recieving end of this scenario and from my experience, it hurts. You may not be happy with your wife and your life together and the situation at work with the "hot" girl can only highten your feelings of alienation from your wife, but as several people have already said, you have to deal with your home life before you can get on with the rest. If you feel you need to leave your wife, don't do it because of an attraction to someone else. Do it for the sake of your children and your wife( she can't be too happy either) and for yourself. If you are able to do this without leaping into a questionable relationship then the next relationship will be based on something other than desire or chance. From the sounds of things you married in error in the first place( you have nothing in common) and doing it again would only compound things. Leave your wife if you must and give yourself time to find happiness with someone just maybe not this particular someone.
A final thought: if you leave your wife for this girl and things do progress nicely and you end up together she will always remember that you left your wife for her and you could do it again.
Good Luck!
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