Should I take the hint?
Seven weeks ago, I met a wonderful girl who seemed to really like me. The problem is that I haven't had another date from her since our first date seven weeks ago.
Now, I'm the kind of person that _really_ dislikes being "brushed off," and feel that people should simply tell you that they don't want to see you (I don't know, the closure just makes me feel better).
But I'm still confused. I've talk to her, periodically, on the phone, and she acts as if she wants to see me but often (very often, I guess) can't find the time. She's so nice and sweet that I can't believe she's the type of person to simply brush someone off and keep lying for so long. She does work two full-time jobs (both minimum wage), went camping for a week, had a grandmother die, and has now adopted a 16 year-old, with whom she works, who has decided to "move out on her own." So, she is a busy girl...
But still, seven weeks? She lives across the street from me so I'm not exactly hard to reach. Perhaps I should just walk over to her apartment and simply talk to her about it?
Am I just totally wrong when I think that this girl likes me?
What do you all think? Am I being unreasonable and people shouldn't really be expected to talk to you about what they think or how they feel? Or do I have the right to a little bit of respect? Am I jumping the gun and making too many assumptions? Is the situation really obvious and I'm just being obtuse?
I'm confused and I don't know what to make of all this. Thank you...
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