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Hmmmmmm, how to say...don't be a dick, man. For one thing, giving a guy blow isn't usally pleasurable, in the least. That's a pretty obvious explanation for her prefering sex. A lot of chics really hate it. Its can be really uncomfortable, taste bad, and feel degrading. Her example about the old boyfriend is exactly the same as my self. Maybe I refer to my first relationship too much in my posts, but they are a good reference of crappy relationships and bad sex and the damage it causes.
I too had an old boyfriend who always wanted me to do it, and during the attempt, would tell me what a bad job I was doing, and as it was my first time, I was traumatized. It got to the point that a dick anywhere near my mouth and any reference to such an act would make me feel self conscious and disgusted. Only years later was a different boyfriend able to repair the damage. Tho now I love it, enjoy it, and have no problems with performing, and no gag reflex. In conclusion, don't pressure her to do something she doesn't want to do AT ALL. Some girls never like it and refuse to perform at all, forever. I know several, and they make up for it with good sex. If you have such a problem with her not returning, then don't go down on her. Or just live with it.
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