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Antagony · 04-25-2003, 12:10 AM

I have some input for this.

Okay, Halx had two really good points, and I'm going to expand on them.

1.) Mental -- State of mind is undoubtedly the biggest part of stamina. One easy-to-understand trick that works for a lot of people is to focus on some physical sensation besides what your COCK is doing. When you're making love, there's a lot of body friction going on. So you could, for example, focus on what your FEET are feeling. Something weird like that. Also, you may want to look into meditation. Mastery of the mind.

2a.) Physical - Pre-Sex -- Someone else mentioned it, but perhaps you've never been introduced to the concept. Pre-sex masturbation. In general, it takes more stimulation to have an orgasm if you recently had an orgasm. So the idea is that you masturbate before sex. Or maybe ask your girlfriend to start things off a blow job or a hand job and then while you're "reloading", give her some nice foreplay and begin to have intercourse as soon as you can get it hard again. Almost guaranteed to last significantly longer.

2b.) Physical - Mid-Sex p.1 -- Sex can (and should) involve a whole lot more than just your wang. One approach is that instead of you lasting longer make HER last shorter. For example, get all crazy with the cunnilingus. Get her good and excited, and then go for the penetration when she's near her climax. (That isn't guaranteed to work though, because of the different stimulation types. You may inadvertently make her last longer.) So for a variation, you can start intercourse, then when you get all hot, pull out. Keep stimulating her while you're cooling off (finger it, tongue it, etc etc) and then plunge back in when you think you're good to go.

2c) Physical - Mid-Sex p.2 -- Try different sex positions. Positions vary a lot in how much friction is going on. You may be able to find a position that doesn't stimulate *you* that much, but feels great to her. Personally, the positions that work best for me in this arena are reverse missionary positions (female on top). Another good one for you to try would be one where you are standing up. Why? Because most people aren't used to having sex this way, and you don't get hot so fast. Also, you should try positions where your dong is pointed at angles you aren't used to. ** That's not to say that it should hurt, or even be uncomfortable. The idea is just to do something your body isn't used to. Be careful when you do this stuff. **

Here I'll reiterate the mental part of the process :::

It sounds to me that you're in a relationship with someone you truly care about. I'm sure she'll still care for you regardless of how long you last. So for her sake and your own, don't worry about your stamina, friend! If you don't worry about your stamina, you'll have more of it. I guarantee it.

Zen.

04-25-2003, 12:10 AM	#10 (permalink)
Antagony Psychopathic Akimbo Action Pirate Location: ...between Christ and Belial.	I have some input for this. Okay, Halx had two really good points, and I'm going to expand on them. 1.) Mental -- State of mind is undoubtedly the biggest part of stamina. One easy-to-understand trick that works for a lot of people is to focus on some physical sensation besides what your COCK is doing. When you're making love, there's a lot of body friction going on. So you could, for example, focus on what your FEET are feeling. Something weird like that. Also, you may want to look into meditation. Mastery of the mind. 2a.) Physical - Pre-Sex -- Someone else mentioned it, but perhaps you've never been introduced to the concept. Pre-sex masturbation. In general, it takes more stimulation to have an orgasm if you recently had an orgasm. So the idea is that you masturbate before sex. Or maybe ask your girlfriend to start things off a blow job or a hand job and then while you're "reloading", give her some nice foreplay and begin to have intercourse as soon as you can get it hard again. Almost guaranteed to last significantly longer. 2b.) Physical - Mid-Sex p.1 -- Sex can (and should) involve a whole lot more than just your wang. One approach is that instead of you lasting longer make HER last shorter. For example, get all crazy with the cunnilingus. Get her good and excited, and then go for the penetration when she's near her climax. (That isn't guaranteed to work though, because of the different stimulation types. You may inadvertently make her last longer.) So for a variation, you can start intercourse, then when you get all hot, pull out. Keep stimulating her while you're cooling off (finger it, tongue it, etc etc) and then plunge back in when you think you're good to go. 2c) Physical - Mid-Sex p.2 -- Try different sex positions. Positions vary a lot in how much friction is going on. You may be able to find a position that doesn't stimulate you that much, but feels great to her. Personally, the positions that work best for me in this arena are reverse missionary positions (female on top). Another good one for you to try would be one where you are standing up. Why? Because most people aren't used to having sex this way, and you don't get hot so fast. Also, you should try positions where your dong is pointed at angles you aren't used to. That's not to say that it should hurt, or even be uncomfortable. The idea is just to do something your body isn't used to. Be careful when you do this stuff. Here I'll reiterate the mental part of the process ::: It sounds to me that you're in a relationship with someone you truly care about. I'm sure she'll still care for you regardless of how long you last. So for her sake and your own, don't worry about your stamina, friend! If you don't worry about your stamina, you'll have more of it. I guarantee it. Zen. __________________ On the outside I'm jazz, but my soul is rock and roll. Sleep is a waste of time. Join the Insomniac Club. "GYOH GWAH-DAH GREH BLAAA! SROH WIH DIH FLIH RYOHH!!" - The Locust Last edited by Antagony; 04-25-2003 at 12:12 AM..