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If you were married to someone I could understand checking the email - but it sounds like you are pretty young and are just in some typical high school situation. You need to realize that you are acting a little obsessive and that jealosy is starting to get the best of you. As you mature and get more experienced in relationships and get more confident in yourself, then you will feel less jealosy and learn to cope with it better, etc. The only thing you can try to do is keep your feelings and actions within the "normal" range and not let your jealosy and obsessive nature warp you any further. If you want to stay with this girl then just tell her "hey, I can't help but feel jealous when you do ______" I would feel better if you didnt' do that. As long as _______ is reasonable then she will either agree or not. I she doesn't comply then say " see ya!" and move on. If you keep getting uncomfortably jealous and obsessive it isn't healthy. Some is ok and normal so just keep everything open. Personally, I would realize - "hey, I"m not gonna marry this girl, so I'll just have fun with her while I can. Your main issue is feel confident with yourself. If you were more sure of yourself then you wouldn't feel so jealous.
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