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E-Mail Snooping; give your opinion
Ok, I didn't know which thread to put this on so please don't complain.
I have been having some serious trust issues with my girlfriend (many of you know in my "heartbroken" thread). Well, there's this guy who would buy her expensive clothes, shoes, flowers, etc. whenever they would hang out. He's but-ass ugly so I knew she wouldn't jump his bones, but still; it's obvious that he wants her, and her going along with him just gives him the notion that he has a chance.
So, with that and another situation in which she went to a prom outside of our city with another dude (before we were officially together) and he ended up molesting her while she slept, I asked her to promise me to never hang out with any guys without me being present. She did.
So, she'd come back with new clothes once in awhile, and I'd ask where she got it from and it'd either be "my parents gave me the money" (her mom works in a sweatshop and her dad in a cheesy motel, so that's pure bullshit) or "my girlfriend took me out and bought me stuff with her boyfriend's credit card!" (I thought that was bullshit from the get-go but had no proof). So, my trust issues with her growing, I end up checking her E-Mail, and find out she was planning on meeting up with the guy who buys her stuff while I was at work. She even gave him my phone number so she could talk to him from my phone!
I know it was wrong for me to check her E-Mail....but if I didn't I wouldn't have found it out. What's your opinion?
P.S. Don't give me, "ignorance is bliss" 'cause I believe "ignorance is artificial."
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