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I, myself, am a girl who cannot orgasm during intercourse, even oral. She may have entirely different problems than me, but let me tell you: what everone's saying about getting her to relax = good idea. Just make sure that you're not putting any pressure on her.
Most guys (at least in my experience) seem obsessed with the idea of getting their girl to orgasm. First of all consider the fact that sex can be very pleasureable without an orgasm. Its not as if YOU'RE a failure and neither is she. Second, the fact that guys are so obsessed with this has caused me problems in the past. I really don't want to go into it to much, but one bf physically, emotionally, and mentally scarred me with obsession of making me orgasm. Another boyfriend just kept worrying about it and being concerned that in telling him everytime that he wasn't doing anything wrong, I felt like a failure.
Just be careful not to hurt her feelings in your pursuit of her pleasure.
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