I like the "define your relationship and forget the past" option. Give her a chance, but do not- i mean do not- tolerate any more lying/strange outings with male friends... I don't mean too controlling, many girls i know have longtime male friends that they aren't about to come close to fucking, but you have to use your judgement.... a habitual liar is a very hard thing to deal with in a relationship. Talk to her, give her a second chance, but make it her last.
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