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Women:
1. Is it better to use a dildo than to masturbate manually?
2. Is it better to use a dildo than having sex (ofcourse the performance of the partner is a big variable here, but I'm looking in general terms)?
3. What are your thought on the use of sex-toy's such a dildos, vibrators?
4. Do you think it is natural/normal/healthy to use a dildo?
5. Is it compareable to the use of an inflatable lovedoll?
6. Is it compareable to the use of a prostitute?
7. Could you lable using a dildo as cheating?
8. Do women use dildos as a replacement to sex?
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1. I can't come manually, so yes.
2. It depends on if a person can make me come, which I've found is nothing I can predict nor depend on to have any general idea of the abilities of men. Skill is the only determining factor for comparison.
3. I use toys, it's not a big deal; many people use them.
4. Yes, it's natural/normal/healthy/acceptable/not-negative.
5. Kind of. It's more like a pocket pussy then a rubber doll because they're relatively small and inexpensive. Blowup dolls are an investment. It's more like this: A dildo is to a pocket pussy as a sex machine (
http://www.sexmachines.com/) is to a blowup doll.
6. A dildo that only you use will not give you an STD and is not animate. The same can't be said for a prostitute. I think this is the #1 reason they are not comparable.
7. A dildo is just a tool, so it's not cheating. It can be exciting if used properly.
8. I don't use it as a replacement, more like a substitute or aid. (And I think my opinion is not the minority in this topic.) Dildos will never replace sex because, again, it's not animate, not real sex. The point of a dildo is to imitate something real. I use them when the prospect of sex is not in the near future or if I want to "spice it up," so to speak.