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Originally posted by Cynthetiq
I've worked under tyrant bosses. I've worked to finish projects within IMPOSSIBLE deadlines without the tools to get my job accomplished. I had my boss call me on Saturday asking why I didn't want to come into the office. Calling me every hour saying, "You complain you don't have enough money, but here I'm giving your more opportunity to make more and you don't want to come into work." I had my boss insist on housing me because he didn't want to pay me an adequate salary. I had to work with gloves and a sweater because the building was drafty during the winter time, sometimes snow would even blow into the windowsills. I had my boss insist on feeding me and paying for restaurants evern night after we worked at 14 hour shift only to not just want to eat but to discuss the day and go over issues and problems making my net day 16 hours. I had my boss insist on driving me to work because he didn't want to increase my salary to allow me to take public transportation.
But all that he put me through that mean I don't show the person some respect when one of his family members passed away. I did just did not attend services.
Obviously your lack of compassion for another's feelings shows your ignorance to life and interacting with others within society. IMHO each post you've made in this thread has been and example of my above statement.
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Because I don't have any feelings towards her loss, That makes me Ignorant towards life and Interacting with others in Society? I have never even held a conversation with this lady, The only way she knows my name is cause it's on my work shirt...I don't know her and she doesn't know me.
Yes it is too bad that she lost her husband, But I don't have any feelings towards her loss...But I do understand what she is going through.
I am the kind of guy who accepts death for what it is, It happens to everyone sooner or later...It's a part of life. Will I be sad when my mother or girlfriend or anybody else that is close to me passes...Yes, Cause they were close to me...death happens everyday...i am not the kind of guy who will grieve for days & Days over a loss.
I know it's gonna happen to everybody I know at any given time, it's something that i can't change..So I accept it. I just make the best of the time I spend with the people in my life...When they pass I say Goodbye and I think about the good times we had, keep them in my mind and heart and move on.
Ya i know...Most of you are probably thinking I am disturbed or a complete asshole...I can't change who I am...And I wouldn't even if I could.
I have already had 2 friends that have died..They were killed by a drunk driver..Ya I was sad, I just wish they could have gone in a more peacefull way than being hit by a car that ran a red light.
Anyways, Going off topic. just trying to say that I think I accept death better than most people I know...
I know what she is feeling...But I am not gonna have those feelings for somebody I don't know.