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In the exact same situation. Told her, broke down, she was okay... friendship was cool... got over her... ended up kissing several times since... friendship is cool...
it's really dependant on how strong the friendship is. She wont fuck off if you tell her, yeah she'll be weirded out, but if you take a time-out, it'll all be good. Dont let yourself fall in the trap of wearing yourself down. It slips into mild obsession, and that's a big problem. Keep yourself in check. Be mild with what you say, it's not lying it's just keeping it cool. Say you might want to try something, jump at the kiss if the opportunity strikes BUT DO NOT, I MEAN IT, DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER! That's the biggest no no. Say you maybe want to try something, that way it saves you embarassment, and her.
Play it cool, dont lie, just be mild.
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