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Originally posted by wry1
While men revel in rebuilding classic cars or remodeling a home to their "perfect" place, women do the same thing with the men in their lives. When they realize that the job either is beyond their means, or the man isn't going to change that radically, or they just don't fucking have the time, ****THAT'S**** when they throw the "You'll never change..." line at you and give up.
Personally, I'm looking for a gal a lot like Anti-Fishstick: someone who realizes that I MIGHT change, but that there are no guarantees and is okay with that.
Anti - what are you doing the rest of your life????
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hmmm i have heard this analogy before...
but you know, i'm NOT ok with that... :P i have to find someone completely compatible with me.. not someone i think has *potential* to change.. i learned that the hard way. hehe. bcos even though i understand that they may not necessarily change, i'll always in the back of my mind want them to.. my last bf had no motivation in life and kind of had this defeat cycle..setting himself up for failure. i just couldn't handle that attitude.. i can deal with a friendship.. but being the psychotic girlfriend.. no thanks.
