ladies: "free" compliments?
On occasion, I've been in casual contact with women that I find attractive. Not a co-worker, just for instance a girl at the coffeeshop. Sometimes I have felt like giving them a "free compliment", just to let them know I find them attractive. Typically not the standard beauty, but more like cute.
Now, I'm happily married, I'm not trying to get this to go any further, just hoping she would feel good about being complimented. I've never actually done this, 'cause I figure I'd end up sounding like some kind of stalker freak.
So, ladies: should I just keep these thoughts to myself?
(sorry if i mislead you and you came to this thread looking for a free compliment.)
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